Wednesday, April 27, 2011

28 Diet Tips in 28 Days

As we move from summer to fall, into the new school season and new year, I am wondering if you would like to join with me as I recommit to my health, to better living! What better time than now!


28 days: 28 diet tips to living a fully baked life!


1. Fruit and Veggies Rule: They are 'real food' (as in not processed or filled with white sugar or white flour ... duh!), they are loaded with fiber; they are ohhhh so satisfying. Add two servings to every meal and consider them for your snacks. The dietary guidelines say 5 to 9.


Half Baked: 5 servings or less


Fully Baked: 9 servings or more


2. Small Plates are Adorable: And you will be too, if you stop with the super-sizing nonsense. Go on a shopping spree (in person; not on-line - burns more calories!) and buy yourself some fabulous small plates. Statistics show that we are just as satisfied, as long as the plate is full!

Monday, April 25, 2011

Stress Less with Yoga

Meet Mark: When something stressful happens, he feels energized. His heart races, his senses heighten—he even feels as though his thoughts speed up. Mark prides himself on his ability to face problems head-on, but he admits that it's becoming difficult to turn this intensity off. Lately he's been feeling more on edge than on top of his game. He's developed headaches and insomnia, and he's beginning to wonder if they're related to stress. He'd like to feel better, but he can't imagine himself changing his full-throttle approach to life. Without stress, how would he ever get anything done?


Mark's wife, Sue, doesn't feel energized by stress—it exhausts her. She feels so depleted by stress that she's begun to cut back on the things that generate the most stress, such as planning big family gatherings. To maintain her composure, she tries to walk away when conflicts arise. She's even considering leaving her challenging job to find something less intense. Sue proudly sees in herself the ability to "just let things go," which she's been cultivating through her yoga practice.

Friday, April 22, 2011

Doing Everything Right, But No Weight Loss

You step up on the scale, hold your breath and the moment of truth seems like a big fat lie: you have not lost one ounce. In fact, you gained a pound! You step up again, more lightly this time, to counteract the force of gravity, but the numbers are the same. What’s going on? Perhaps, you need to go in the opposite direction to find the solution. Are you a light weight when it comes to personal empowerment?


Did you ever consider that your plateau might be telling you something? This is a healthy weight for you. However, unrealistic images fueling the obsessive quest for physical attractiveness makes you yearn to be thinner – turning you into a person with little inner substance. The fact that a number on the scale dictates your mood and fuels stress triggering an all out war with food should alert you to the real problem – your identity has reached a plateau.

Monday, April 18, 2011

Freshmen 15 Weight Gain Is Not Just for Freshmen

Twenty-five percent of students gain quite a bit of weight by their first college semester according to a new study from research authors, Heidi J. Wengreen and Cara Moncur, in Nutrition Journal. What is driving this rapid weight gain? The study provides clear evidence that the transition to college life is a risk factor. It also explains that college freshmen need to learn obesity prevention strategies. Interesting to note: the stats are the same for both men and women.


The way I see it is that we are all freshmen during different times in our lives: Any new beginning whether a job, relationship, parenthood, buying an apt or car, experiencing a loss, getting divorced - any first time can be stressful. We become “freshmen” all over again. This experience of transforming into a newbie presents us with a challenge to our egos: We might be bad at what we do. However, it’s good to be bad at what we do because we are trying out new things, learning, growing and becoming better after messing up. For example, few people are naturals when it comes to learning how to drive or dance. It takes plenty of practice. So instead of beating our heads against a wall of frustration, let’s go with the flow of being fresh. We just might learn a thing or two along the way.

Saturday, April 16, 2011

Don't Lose Weight, Gain Substance!

The problem with weight loss is the word, loss. It has too many negative connotations even though the show, The Biggest Loser is successful. And if you ask me at this very moment, “How do you want to be remembered?” I would not reply regarding how thin I was. Instead I want to be remembered for my substance. Sticking with a healthy meal plan is all about dropping unnecessary weight, feeling lighter and floating on air like when you fall in love and everything and everyone is just grand. To be lighter is to see the light instead of the dark. Consequently, let’s alter traditional perception a bit. Let’s focus on what is gained: health, empowerment – a sense of control.

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Sleep techniques and improving the quality of sleep

A few days back , Yumi asked about sleep techniques and methods to improve Quality of sleep. I think it is a great topic to discuss as many of us suffer from disturbed or light sleep. My sleep used to be very light for last many years. I remember, as a kid I used to fall asleep within five minutes of lying down on my bed at night. I could clearly recall what used to happen in those five minutes. I used to feel that I am in a cradle and the cradle is swinging gently until there is darkness and I am sort of floating and I would be gone in five minutes. The next thing I recall after that used to be waking up fresh as ever, every morning. This continued for sometime till I was a teen or shortly before that. Then the five minute threshold started shooting up. It all started with my mind planning for the next day before sleeping. The planning used to be for studies or other activities at the school mostly. In the following years other things got added up, like a high school crush or something. The five minute period extended to almost fifteen or twenty minutes. Still, it was good, because it was like dreaming. Then the work pressure increased and some stresses of day to day life started building up during higher studies at college. The period shifted to half an hour to one hour. Daily routine also changed as sometimes I would wake up very early or sometimes study late. In recent years, my sleep cycle got totally disturbed, as I would normally be awake till midnight and then I used to have hard time sleeping until three in the morning. I would wake up only by nine or so in the morning and be a late worker as my schedule allowed so. Surprisingly, no matter how much you sleep after five in the morning, it does not make you feel better. It only adds to the pre-existing lethargy. Procrastination, cold weather, stress, bad phases and eating pattern all added up to this sleep cycle. I used to snack around one or two in the morning. My body weight started shooting up for no apparent reason. I tried warm milk, hot water bath, reading a boring book, not watching TV, eating dinner before seven at night, going to bed by nine or so. Nothing seemed to work. I usually would come back to the same old pattern after a day or two of a revolutionary routine. I had learnt yoga, meditation and breathing techniques from different wonderful courses that "The Art of Living" provides. They teach a specific breathing technique called Sudarshan Kriya that helps you release negative emotions, stress and tensions etc. They have Art of Living Part I course which is offered throughout the world ( www.artofliving.org). Anyone can take this basic course followed by other advanced courses. Home practice exercises are given to do everyday. Every place has a center that does follow ups once every week in a group. I learnt all that but was not regular in my home practices. Although, these helped me in stress management and helped at many other emotional and spiritual levels. My health became very good and there were many good effects that could be called as byproducts of spiritual growth. Since I wasn't regular in my home practices, I took advanced course last year where one follows some of the meditations and pranayama (breathing techniques) observing total silence for five to seven days. During this time you eat less and eat vegetarian Sattvic food. After I took this course, during the first day I slept like a baby again. I woke up very fresh after fifteen years of not so good or very light and recent two years of totally disturbed sleep. I was feeling so relaxed and the only two time points I could remember were sleeping and waking up. There was a total blank sleep period. I resolved to do the following and it has helped me immensely in sleeping very well. I am almost a five year old in that sense now and I hope reading and following it might be able to solve your sleep problems:

Monday, April 11, 2011

Paying Attention to Yourself and Your Environment Can Help Your Sleep!

Putting attention on ourselves and our environment can help to resolve some of our personal challenges, especially sleep issues. Here are some tips and questions for you to place your attention on so you can get a good night sleep!


1. Are you waking up periodically during the night to adjust your pillow?


If so, you may want to try one of those ergonomic pillows, or you may just need a new pillow or mattress.


2. Are you waking up periodically during the night to use the restroom?


A quick fix for many of my clients - cut off liquids by 7:00PM, (caffeine by 4 and limit it to 2 cups per day). However, there could be a more serious medical issue going on. If you don’t think you are experiencing the need for elimination in the middle of the night due to liquids, you may need to seek the help of your health practitioner.

Thursday, April 7, 2011

14 Sleep Tips: Overcoming Insomnia

Do you stay awake all night and sleep all day? Do you lie around all the time but never get rested? Do you have trouble getting to sleep? Are you able to get to sleep, but wake up frequently throughout the night? Do you believe you are sleeping long enough, but you still wake up tired?


We are continually stressed and running short on time and it would seem logical that after running around all day we would have no trouble getting to sleep at night. But that is not the case. Many of us are finding it increasingly difficult to get to sleep at night. To further complicate matters, we tend to depend upon caffeine, cigarettes and sugar as a substitute for what only a good night's sleep can provide. Sleep patterns, thinking processes and mood are intimately related. Sleep deprivation makes us irritable, unable to think clearly and depressed. Many of us become so desperate to get a good night's sleep that we resort to medications, but are they really necessary? Perhaps the best medicine of all is to start really listening to your body instead of working against it.

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Setting a New Sleep Routine

Question:



On the Ellen DeGeneres show you said that you get up at 4:00 am to meditate. I would like to become an early riser also, because the early morning is the only quiet time for meditation where I live, but also because I would like to get more done during the day. I never sleep through the night, and this has been a life-long pattern. I go to bed around 11:00 pm and usually wake up around 3:00-4:00 am for a couple of hours, then fall asleep again, waking at 8:00 or 9:00 am. If I have to get up earlier than this I feel a lot of anxiety and end up sleeping very little or not at all. I have tried many things to improve this (including doctors, meditation, hypnosis and counseling, EFT, yoga, spending time in nature, working on personal goals) but nothing has helped much. I have also tried getting up and meditating at 4:00 am, but I end up getting tired again and I have to return to bed. Our ancestors used to sleep for a few hours, then get up and return to bed, and I suspect that this ancient habit is partly related to my interrupted sleep. When I wake up, I feel groggy for a couple of hours and don't really get going until about noon. I drink a few cups of coffee in the morning.

Sunday, April 3, 2011

How to create multiple orgasms in women

1. If you are a woman, decide that no matter how inept you feel in every other area of life, you are capable of responding similarly to women who are multi-orgasmic if you or your partner know what to do.



2. Talk to your gynecologist. What does he or she know that will help make your sex life more pleasurable.



3. Buy books that will teach you more about the full extent of female sexual potential. Read them.



4. If you are married with kids, take two hours on a Sunday morning and send the youngsters to a friends house or the zoo or give them some money and send them to an arcade. You want them so absorbed they forget all about you. Now you have to let yourself get so absorbed that you forget all about them too.

Friday, April 1, 2011

Ayurvedic Recommendations to Improve Rest at Night

General Suggestions:


Meditate twice daily. Sleep research studies have shown that meditation reduces the time of sleep onset to normal in patients with insomnia.



Maintain a regular daily routine: rise, meditate, eat, work, exercise, play, and sleep at the same time every day. Go to bed by 10pm, which is the end of the Kapha period when the mind and body are naturally drowsier. If you are not currently accustomed to being regular about your routine, you may want to start by first writing down a schedule to follow for the first few weeks.



Eat Vata-pacifying Foods: If the mind is very active at bedtime follow a Vata-pacifying diet or light Vata diet. Have an early, light supper, such as soup or hot cereal, toast, warm milk at least three hours before bedtime.